She says, "I AM, therefore I
AM."
He says, "I DESIRE/CREATE, therefore I AM."
You probably won’t find your soulmate in a Scorpio. It is true that you can be drawn to each other by strong physical chemistry. Unfortunately, your warm feelings towards each other probably won’t last longer than the first date. You like to be in control of things, and Scorpio boys are totally paranoid about letting their romantic partners be in control. This will cause lots of fights over who is "right" in every situation, from which movie to see, to who your friends should be. You’ll get sick of Scorpio’s need to battle out every little difference of opinion. Scorpio guys also take quite a while to warm up, while you’re always raring to go. You deserve a happier, less turbulent match than this one.
Who has hand in this relationship? Sorry, Miss Aries . . . but it's Scorpio. But this isn't a bad thing. You love the mystery and intensity of your Scorpio boy, and with him; you'll never be bored. Just remain aware that once and a while, he might become slightly jealous of your wonderful self, so cut him a break or tell him the truth if he starts to get insecure. Not everyone can be calm in the midst of a babe of your magnitude.
Perfect sexually but not emotionally. Both are energetic, and passionate. Each is forceful and wants to control. Scorpio is jealous and Aries outside interests could cause friction between them. Aries won’t take orders and neither will Scorpio. Lots of tempers fly with this union. Low tolerance level for this pair. Both are selfish and want to make the decisions. Scorpio is secretive and brooding and Aries open and impulsive.
This is quite likely the most difficult pairing of the Zodiac in terms of achieving harmony. The ability of Aries to give way to others will be severely put to the test by the inherent Scorpio trait to assume control of every situation. Here, it would not be unusual for the Aries partner to do the exact opposite of what Scorpio desires in an attempt to simply be contentious. One of the major problems will be the unreasonable jealousy of the Scorpio native, which is a deep-rooted part of the Scorpio nature and cannot be changed. Thus, Aries may soon become highly claustrophobic if he or she is forced to follow the Scorpio partner's idea of nesting. Scorpio is of the opinion that the domestic environment is the place to be completely relaxed and isolated from the rest of the world. However, Aries is more interested in being involved in that world to the fullest extent. Therefore, the Aries partner will want to hold parties and have friends dropping in and out most of the time. Consequently, the Scorpio native will be driven to distraction. Generally, those governed by Scorpio mate for life...but this combination could be the exception. Scorpio subjects have certain ideals which their partners are expected to live up to. Any failure on the part of the Aries native to meet these ideals will cause Scorpio to push him or her totally out of the mind and heart. In essence, Scorpio is jealous, overly-demanding and expects total possession. The dominate and dominating nature of Aries will never stand for being dominated. In short, this is not a promising union.
While basking in the first bloom of this relationship, each partner will probably wonder how he or she ever managed apart from the other. These are two Signs who adore power and together, they can achieve almost anything, provided they learn how to share the spotlight. The Scorpio native is very focused by nature and once the sights have been set upon an Aries individual, that individual is most likely totally unable to offer any resistance. In addition, Scorpio will harbor a deeper and more complex devotion to the relationship than will the Aries native. This pair tends to engage in arguments that are both heavy and heated, their connection being highly passionate and often contentious because both have jealous tendencies. The Scorpio partner is liable to be more patient but is also more possessive and can lash out in a nasty fashion when his or her feelings get hurt. Still, despite the differences in emotional involvement, both love risk and enjoy taking chances. If nothing else, this union will never be boring. Aries and Scorpio can have many adventures in each other's company, although there will be difficulties with mutual understanding. Aries is a true extrovert...totally up-front and open, while Scorpio is more inward...emotional and often manipulative. It may be necessary for these two to call a truce in order to keeping the relationship running on a smooth track.
Aries is ruled by the planet Mars and Scorpio is ruled by the the planet Pluto. It is likely that this pair will either end up being staunch allies or deadly enemies. Together, they will have an exciting time of it...both in a physical sense and otherwise...but squabbles will be normal in such a challenge-oriented couple. Aries is governed by the element of Fire while Scorpio is governed by the element of Water. These two elements can be a magnificent blend, one that combines physical action and emotion in order to get things accomplished. Here, Scorpio will be the strategist, helping Aries to slow down and learn the art of planning battles before plunging in headfirst. Aries will teach Scorpio how to let go and move on when efforts have been thwarted. However, Water does have a tendency to dampen Fire and the Scorpio trait toward emotional manipulation will often have such an effect on Aries, virtually drowning much of the Aries enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire causes Water to evaporate and when under emotional stress, Scorpio can become exceedingly vindictive. Hence, it will be necessary for this pair to work together and not against each other. Aries is Cardinal in quality and Scorpoio is Fixed in quality. Aries can teach Scorpio all about spontaneity...doing things simply for the experience rather than always having an agenda. Scorpio can help Aries to stabilize and finish things rather than constantly moving onto new projects without completing what is already on the table. If both can realize there is a good chance each will be loyal and devoted to each other, they can share leadership...Aries as the initiator and Scorpio as the emotional guide. Since both individuals are winners and refuse to give up, the power of their combined forces will be immense, making for a relationship that will never settle for second best.
In essence, this combination may not be a great match since there is no room for two heads of household and each native is marked by a very dominant temperament. Although Scorpio will appreciate Aries in a physically romantic sense, more mundane interests would constantly be at odds. Plus, Scorpio may become intimidated by the leadership qualities of Aries and this is sure to result in problems. Thus, even though a relationship is possible, it is not likely to come with much longevity.
This marriage will not be a happy one. They will easily get angry at each other. The end result is that they are not together spiritually even though they still look like a couple. There will be disasters. Their relationship will be short lived.
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A yin-yang combination that has Venus meeting Mars --- never a dull moment.
The attraction between natives of Aries and Libra is common, but not one that is necessarily long lasting. These are two very different characters with widely varying personalities. The Aries individual is a firm believer in equality of the sexes and equality in the romantic arena. Initially, he or she will be amused at Libra's attempt to dominate the relationshp, but when Aries comes to the realization that his or her Libra partner is deadly serious about this, conflict is sure to arise. Here, both partners will be impulsive and that could be one of the reasons for an initial attraction. Those governed by Libra are always willing and ready to help others, which the Aries subject scorns as being a gross waste of time...particularly if the Aries native believes the person in question capable to doing better if only he or she would employ a little more effort. In addition, the Aries partner is not above using Libra's inferiority complex to his or her own personal advantage. Those ruled by Aries may sadistically endeavor to keep Libra down, especially if there has been a loss of respect in the relationship. This state of affairs will not last long since the inherent Libra love of romance and tendency to wander will soon put the Aries partner in a combatant mood which, in turn, disgusts the harmony-loving Libra individual. This union is likely to be a shaky partnership at best.
Within the Zodiac Wheel, Aries and Libra are located directly opposite to one another in polarity. Thus, each Sign possesses qualities that the other lacks. This, combined with Libra's natural desire for harmony, can result in a balanced relationship. However, Aries is associated with self while Libra is associated with partnerships...and that is not the only difference. Aries is impulsive, excitable and eager to engage in new and exciting ventures. Libra is indecisive, peace-loving and prefers an approach which is calm and smooth. Still, the Aries partner may learn from these Libra traits that his or her own way is not necessarily the best course of action. There is much physical attraction here...common to all Zodiac Signs that are opposite in polarity. In addition, the connection between these two is amazing when good and extremely challenging when bad. All polarities possess energies that are liable to tangle or knot if understandings cannot be reached. Nonetheless, the charming and cultured Libra partner can teach the brash Aries native something about style. Libra prizes harmony in a relationship and will go to great lengths in order to maintain tranquility. In return, the Aries partner will be very decisive and can teach the wavering Libra native how to rely on intuition for answers.
Aries is ruled by the planet Mars and Libra is ruled by the the planet Venus. This usually results in a magnificent match. Mars and Venus combine splendidly as each is one side of the love relationship coin. Mars is associated with the passion of romance while Venus is associated with the beauty of romance. Thus, this is a wonderful combination. Aries is governed by the element of Fire while Libra is governed by the element of Air. Air fuels Fire and helps it to grow and spread. Aries natives can have a very positive effect upon Libra's growth, ideas and progress. In addition, Aries will help the Libra native to put his or her ideas into action. However, working as a team may present challenges on occasion courtesy of the polarity of these two Signs. The impetuous and fast-paced approach to projects employed by Aries may conflict with Libra's more balanced and intellectual approach. Still, both individuals have wide-ranging interests and at the end of a long an active day, the Aries partner can come home and tell his or her interesting stories to the more cerebral Libra. Both Aries and Libra are Cardinal in quality. Hence, each partner here has much initiative, but is sadly lacking in follow-through abilities. They will tend to start things they are never going to finish...be it a job, project or relationship. The Aries partner will appear to be the leader because of his or her energy and forceful nature, but it is Libra who will lead from an intellectual standpoint. Both partners will want to be in charge, but Aries is liable to use force and, on occasion, intimidation to get what he or she desires, whereas Libra will employ charm and, on occasion, manipulation. Thus, compromise is essential to the health of this union. However, diplomatic Libra has a much easier time adapting to compromise that does his or her Aries partner, who strongly dislikes yielding to another person and views it as submission. Therefore, the Libra individual may have to give in more often to the wishes of Aries in order to maintain the peace that Libra natives cherish so dearly. The harmony resulting from a combination of Mars and Venus can bring balance between self and other...a wonderful learning experience for both Signs. Each is capable of bringing to the relationship what the other is missing and can make for a truly magnificent balance.
In essence, this combination may be a great match. The warm and passionate Libra will make a welcoming home for the fiery and impetuous Aries...particularly if both partners are on the same cultural and intellectual level. Aries will appreciate the passion and emotion of Libra, but too much of either could bring about destruction. In short, this union is all about balance and if this can be achieved, the relationship could go a very long way.
This s a happy marriage as long as the Rat is not abusive. We can not be abusive to Pigs.